The 39-year-old truck driver from Longnan in Gansu Province, northwest China, has been working in Shanghai since 2007

What would you do if your wife became paralyzed and you had to choose between earning a living or staying home to care for her?

Nie Jianwen didn't choose. He found a third option.

The 39-year-old truck driver from Longnan in Gansu Province, northwest China, has been working in Shanghai since 2007. That's thousands of kilometers from his hometown. For years, he would make the long hauls while his wife Cao Yingying stayed home, taking care of everything and raising their two sons.

Then in 2020, Cao suffered a brain hemorrhage. She survived, but the stroke left her paralyzed.


Nie faced an impossible situation. He had two young children at home and a 76-year-old mother who couldn't possibly care for a disabled daughter-in-law on top of two grandchildren. If he stopped working to stay home, the family would have no income. But leaving Cao behind wasn't an option either.



So Nie made a decision that would eventually touch millions. He brought Cao with him on the road.


Since 2020, she has traveled with him in his truck cabin on every single trip. Nie handles all her daily care - bathing, dressing, medication, even makeup application.


Living in a truck cabin is challenging for anyone. For someone paralyzed, the difficulties multiply. There are no proper washing facilities, no bathroom, minimal space for movement. Simple tasks like showering or using a toilet become major obstacles.



Sometimes accidents happen on long highway stretches with no rest stops available. Nie cleans up without complaint.


He also ensures Cao gets rehabilitation training, taking her out to exercise whenever he stops to load or unload cargo, often working through the night.


The dedication has paid off. After more than two years of constant care and encouragement, Cao has regained enough strength to walk nearly two kilometers with support.


In July 2022, their son shared a video of his parents' daily life on the road. The footage went viral across China, bringing millions to tears and sparking widespread praise for Nie's commitment.


When asked about his devotion, Nie explained that his wife had spent years managing their household and raising their children. He felt it was simply his turn to care for her when she needed him most.


The couple has deep roots together. They were middle school classmates, and Cao was Nie's first love. He spent years pursuing her before they finally got together.



Now, Nie's main goal is earning enough to buy a larger truck - one with more room for Cao's rehabilitation exercises and their life together on the road.

He summed up his philosophy simply: bringing two people together is difficult, and taking responsibility when it matters most is what being human is all about.

#Love #Marriage #Devotion

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