"MY MIL WENT CRAZY AFTER I GAVE BIRTH — SHE ENDED UP STEALING MY DOG!
"MY MIL WENT CRAZY AFTER I GAVE BIRTH — SHE ENDED UP STEALING MY DOG!
Ever since I had my baby, my MIL has lost her mind! We were never best friends, but this was madness. She would show up EVERY. SINGLE. DAY! I tell you, she nitchpicked everything I did with little Sophie. But the worst part? Our dog.
Bear, our Newfoundland, is the sweetest, most gentle baby ever. He's super careful with Sophie, and we're always watching. But my MIL kept going off about how we needed to get rid of him! Saying he should be dumped at a shelter, that it's ""unsanitary,"" and he's ""too big and dangerous"" for the baby. She treated him like garbage —and my husband wouldn't say a word to her.
One day, I snapped and threw her out. Went back to cooking, cleaning etc. Then my husband walks in, pale as a sheet, and goes, ""Bear… he's gone.""
I FREAKED. We searched all night—nothing. But deep down, I already knew. There's only one person who could've done something this messed up. AND I'M NOT LETTING HER GET AWAY WITH IT."
My Controlling MIL Stole My Dog Because She Didn't Trust Me as a Mom — Here's How I Took Back Control
My controlling MIL became unbearable after I gave birth, but I hit my limit when she stole the family dog, claiming it was a threat to the baby. I gave my husband an ultimatum that shattered family ties, but a bittersweet reunion years later healed us.
There's a kind of quiet that only happens when a baby sleeps. I sat on the sofa, cradling my coffee cup while Bear, our Newfoundland, sprawled across the rug beside the bassinet.
Bear had been my shadow for five years, ever since my husband brought him home as an anniversary gift for me. Now, he'd just expanded his watchlist to include our newborn, Sophie.
Sophie stirred in the crib, her tiny fist punching the air. I sighed, setting my cup down and crossing the room.
"Hang on, sweet pea," I murmured, peeking over the crib's edge.
Bear nudged my leg, and I couldn't help but laugh as I realized he'd brought me Sophie's burp cloth from the sofa.
"Okay, clever boy," I said, holding the drool-soaked burp cloth at arm's length. "We've got to get your drool situation under control before she starts crawling. Deal?"
His tail wagged, and I swear it was a yes.
And then, like a sudden thundercloud, the front door opened. The sound of heels on hardwood made my stomach clench. I didn't even have to look up.
Karen breezed into the room, her eyes immediately locking onto Bear and the drool-soaked burp cloth in my hand. Karen's expression twisted in distaste.
"You're letting that thing slobber all over the baby's things?" she said, gesturing wildly. "That's unsanitary! At least put the dog outside."
"Bear's fine," I said evenly, crossing to the laundry basket to grab a clean burp cloth. "He's not hurting anyone."
Karen sniffed, her gaze sweeping the room like a TSA agent at an airport. "A big dog like that doesn't belong anywhere near a baby. You think it's cute now, but wait until he gets between you and the baby. You don't know what he's capable of."
That one hit harder than I expected. My chest tightened, but I forced a laugh. "Bear? Dangerous? He's a giant marshmallow."
"Exactly," Karen said, crossing her arms. "He's too big. You don't understand how dangerous dogs can be — it only takes one second for something to go wrong."
The door opened again, and thank God, my husband, Tom, walked in, shrugging off his coat.
"Hey, everyone," he said, his grin fading slightly as he took in the scene. "What's going on?"
Karen turned to him with the air of a woman making a dramatic announcement. "We were just discussing the dog. He needs to go, Tom. It's only a matter of time before he harms the baby."
"Mom," Tom interrupted, holding up his hands. "The worst Bear's gonna do is slobber Sophie to death."
Karen muttered something under her breath and started rearranging the baby things. She loudly criticized the state of our home and tried to snatch Sophie out of my arms when I started burping her after her feed.
"That's not how you burp a baby!" She cried.
Bear let out a low woof, and Karen dramatically retreated from him.
"See? I told you he was dangerous. Put the dog outside right now, or better yet, get rid of him!"
This carried on for two weeks! Karen called or showed up unannounced every day, and every day, she fired off criticism like an army sniper. It was driving me crazy. And every time I mentioned it to Tom, he brushed it off.
"She's just being protective," he'd say. "Her heart's in the right place."
But today, Karen was back, and the tension in the house could've snapped like a rubber band. She glared at Bear in his usual spot, then did something completely out of bounds.
She marched over to Bear, grabbed his collar, and yanked on it. "You're going outside right now!"
Bear dug his heels in and growled low in his throat.
"Let him be! He won't allow you to take him away from Sophie."
"He's far too possessive," she hissed, her voice like nails on a chalkboard. "It's dangerous."
"Bear is protecting her," I snapped, my voice sharper than I intended. "You're the one antagonizing him, Karen."
"Enough!" Her tone dripped with authority, like she was addressing a rebellious teenager. "I'm only thinking of Sophie's safety. You'll thank me one day."
When she finally left, I stood on the porch, clutching Sophie to my chest while Bear sat at my feet. I watched Karen's car disappear down the street and sighed.
"Guess we'll have to talk to Dad about Grandma, huh?" I murmured to Sophie.
I carried Sophie inside and set her down for a nap.
Bear settled beside her crib like usual, his head resting on his paws. I ruffled his fur and whispered, "Good boy," before heading to the kitchen to start dinner.
An hour later, Tom came home. He kissed me on the cheek, kicked off his shoes, and headed straight for Sophie's room.
A moment later, his voice called out, tense and confused. "Where's Bear?"
I frowned, wiping my hands on a dish towel. "What do you mean? He's with Sophie."
The words knocked the air out of me. I rushed to Sophie's room, my stomach twisting with dread. The sight of Bear's empty spot beside her crib sent my heart plummeting.
"Maybe he's in the backyard," Tom suggested, already heading for the sliding door.
We searched the entire house, calling Bear's name until our voices cracked, but he wasn't there
Tom went out to search the neighborhood while I dialed every animal shelter in town, stumbling over my words as I described Bear. Nobody had seen him.
When Tom returned, his face was pale and drawn. He took one look at me and sank onto the sofa.
"First thing tomorrow, we'll print posters and hang them up around town," he said.
I stayed up long after Tom went to bed, pacing the living room.
My thoughts raced, darting between every awful possibility. And then, like a thunderclap, the thought struck me: Karen.
It made sense except for one detail: how? I'd watched her leave. There was no way she could have taken him without me seeing. And could she really stoop so low? Could anyone?
I wanted to wake Tom, but the words felt too damning to speak. So I stayed silent, the fear and suspicion curling around me like a storm cloud
Karen showed up unannounced the next morning, as she often did.
My stomach twisted as I opened the door and saw her standing there with her polished smile. I immediately told her about Bear and asked if she'd watch Sophie while we put up posters.
"Of course, I'll watch Sophie! And don't worry so much about the dog. It's probably for the best, dear," she said breezily.
Her words hit me like a slap, but I forced myself to stay calm
As Tom and I drove through the neighborhood, stapling posters to light poles and taping them to storefront windows, Karen's words echoed in my mind. "It's for the best." What did she mean by that? Did she know something?
When we got home, Karen was in the rocking chair, humming softly as Sophie slept in her arms. She looked up as we walked in; her smile serene and unbothered. But I couldn't hold it in any longer.
"Where is he?" I asked, my voice sharp. "What did you do to Bear?
Karen blinked, her face a mask of innocence. "I don't know what you're talking about."
"Yes, you do," I said, my hands balling into fists. "Don't play dumb, Karen."
She sighed dramatically and set Sophie down in the crib. "Fine! Yes, I took him. Someone had to think of Sophie's safety since clearly you won't. You're too blinded by your emotions to make the right decisions."
Tom stepped forward, his voice low. "Mom… please tell me you didn't.
Karen's chin jutted out defiantly. "I did what had to be done. He's at a shelter now. Somewhere you won't find him, so you can't bring him back here to endanger my granddaughter."
The room spun. I didn't even realize I was crying until Tom touched my shoulder.
"You had no right," I whispered, my voice shaking. "He's part of our family. Sophie loves him. You… you need to get out of my sight, right now, Karen, before I do something I regret."
For the first time, Karen looked truly shocked. But she straightened her shoulders, collected her bag, and left without another word. The sound of the door slamming echoed through the house, but it didn't bring any relief. Only silence.
That night, the house was unbearably quiet. Tom sat at the dining table, looking up shelters on his phone. His jaw was tight, and his fingers tapped restlessly against the screen. I stood by the sink, gripping the edge of the counter as anger and heartbreak churned in my chest
My voice trembled with exhaustion, but I forced the words out. "She's never going to respect me — or us."
Tom sighed, rubbing the back of his neck. "I know she went too far this time, but… she's protective. She thought she was doing the right thing."
I turned to face him, my eyebrows shooting up in disbelief. "The right thing? She stole Bear! And she's not protective, she's controlling. She's manipulative. And you keep making excuses for her like it's okay. It's not.
I felt the dam inside me break, and the words spilled out in a rush.
"This isn't just about Bear, Tom. It's about her always treating me like I'm not good enough. And you; you sit there and let her do it. You play devil's advocate while she undermines me, over and over again."
He opened his mouth to respond, but I cut him off, stepping closer. "If you won't stand up for me and our family, then we're done. I mean it, Tom. I can't do this anymore."
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